After all of the waiting, your crush FINALLY asks you to be their boyfriend or girlfriend 😁!! You start off holding hands, texting them all the time, and meeting in between classes to kiss in the
stairwell. Things are off to a great start, but then, they start talking to you about wanting to have sex 😮. You have learned about the birds and the bees and where babies come from, thanks to the awkward conversation you had with your parents, but it is really starting to make you feel nervous. If you
do become sexually active, what can keep you safe from getting diseases, or more seriously, having a baby 🤔 💭??
Making the
decision to have sex is a HUGE responsibility. If you decide to do so, the best way to stay safe is by using contraceptives. Contraceptives
are various methods people use to stay safe from sexually passed diseases,
infections, and even pregnancy (5). You don't want to have a baby at 13 or 14 years old, right 😨?? Then contraceptives are the way to go! These are very
good to consider and can be very helpful to keep you protected 👍. There
are many methods to choose from depending on factors such as age, gender,
price and personal preference between partners.
For teenage boys, the most used method is a condom. A
condom (shown in Figure 1) is a barrier method that works by putting a latex covering over your penis to prevent
sperm from entering the vagina (1). I know, this is totally weird to read about, but honestly, if you aren't mature enough to discuss it then you may not be mature enough to do it 🤔. Condoms are very useful because not only is it one of the least expensive methods (because we get it- a lot of middle schoolers don't really have alot of
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Figure 1: Condoms and birth control pills (2) |
money) to use, but it also is easily accessible. You can walk into any local supermarket and it should be in the health section (6). For teenage girls, the most commonly used method is birth control pills. Birth control pills (shown in Figure 1) are taken by mouth and work to make hormones stop your eggs from coming down the fallopian tube, which prevents fertilization from a male's sperm (5). When taken correctly the pill can be 91% effective 🙏 (5). In order to get the pill, you usually need a prescription from a doctor known as a gynecologist, who checks up on the female reproductive system (6). For more information on the various (over 15) types of birth control there are to choose from and what they do, click ➡️ here ⬅️
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Listed below are some REALLY important ways how contraception is beneficial to teens your age. One of the most important ways contraceptives are helpful is that when they are used correctly they can prevent sexually transmitted diseases or infections 😬(also known as STD or STI). The methods that block sperm from entering the vagina or cover at least one of the two genitals involved (such as condoms), can prevent infected bodily fluids from passing from one person to another (1). Some of the diseases that are sexually transmitted are not curable and can even be fatal 😨. Using barrier protection is one of the only ways to prevent spreading these when having sex 👍.
Another important way contraception is helpful is that it prevents pregnancy.
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Figure 2: Teen pregnancy facts and statistics (3) |
You have your whole life to live, do you really want to have a child, when you are this young? Birth control pills and condoms prevent fertilization (which is what makes a baby). Teen pregnancy is still extremely high in the United States🤰👎. It is also one of the top reasons for school dropouts. Dropping out of school can lead to no job and no job can lead to not making money 😞 (3) . I think you know where I am going with that and how it is best NOT to let this happen to you. Don't you want to live your life as a kid and have no one to be responsible for
besides yourself? Figure 2 shows accurate realities of what can occur if you become a teen parent and really emphasizes that teens are not ready to parent. This is for your own sake as well as the sake of an innocent child.
Bonus Fact: Did you know, even girls not having sex can take birth control pills to help them get clear skin? Certain birth control pills can help lessen or stop dreadful acne that starts for many girls this age! 😀
Overall, many teenagers are starting to not only learn what sex really is but acting on their sexual curiosity💏. The most important thing to remember is that you should not be afraid or nervous when it comes to considering using contraceptives because they are extremely helpful at keeping you safe. As long as you learn the correct ways to use them, they can keep you from getting unwanted diseases or having a baby 🎉. You have your whole life ahead of you, so make sure if you plan to become sexually active you have a serious thought about contraceptives. It can make such a positive impact on your future 🙂👍.
References
(1) Amy, J &
Thiery, M. (2015). The condom a turbulent history. PsychINFO.
20(8). 387-402.
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(2) Corinna, H. (2011, May 6). If You Use the Pill, Do You Still Have to Use Condoms? Retrieved
from Rewire website: https://rewire.news/article/2011/05/06/when-pill-still-have-condoms/
(3) Durkin, E. (2013, March 4). NYC ad campaign on teen pregnancy marshals crying babies. Retrieved
from NY Daily News website: http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/new-ad-campaign-teen-pregnancy-article-1.1278589
(4) Glasenbergen, R. (2000). [Drawing]. Received from http://www.glasbergen.com/tag/cartoons-about-sex-drive/
(5) Planned
Parenthood. (n.d.). Birth Control Methods & Options | Types of Birth
Control. Retrieved December 3, 2017, from https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control
(6) Planned Parenthood. (n.d.). Where Can I Buy Birth Control
Pills & How Much Do They Cost? Retrieved December 2, 2017, from https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/birth-control-pill/how-do-i-get-birth-control-pills